License # 430709411


5038 Hyland Avenue
San Jose, CA 95127
408.251.8633

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Curiosity and a desire to explore Allow exploration, but constantly supervise. Remove child from physical dangers such as stove, plants, windows. Remove unsafe or valuable objects from child's immediate environment.
Need for physical movement Offer space to move and stretch, such as the playground or the park.
Interest in toys and water Provide appropriate and safe toys and play materials.
Want to do things for selves Encourage them when they want to feed themselves and dress themselves.
Fear of Separation: intensely attached to parent Take time to familiarize child with sitter or new childcare environment.
Bursts of anger when frustrated Do not punish for angry behavior. Remain calm. Set a good example.
Learn through play Offer safe, sturdy educational materials.
Discover the power of language Teach words and phrases, talk about everyday things, read stories and nursery rhymes.
Can express own ideas by saying "No" a lot Don't get into a battle of wills. Calmly state, "It's time to_____." or "You need to_____." Then do it.
Possessively say "Mine!" Give a special place for possessions, rather than always forcing a child to share.

Imagine the power a toddler feels from learning to walk and talk! Parents of toddlers should recognize that children who say "NO" are not acting badly on purpose. Rather, they are going through a healthy stage of learning that they are individuals, separate from others. They have learned to use the power of language. It is up to parents to teach them some things that they cannot do. Even though children may react with temper tantrums, they will learn with teaching, and they will move beyond this stage. Humor and a big dose of patience will help you get through this frustrating time.